When you meet someone for the first time in-person, as with online dating or blind dating, you must prepare to answer the usual questions about status and occupation. Additionally, you must worry about your appearance and how you come off. Often with a blind date or someone you meet online for the first time, it can seem as though how you look and what you do (as in how much you make financially) matter a whole deal and who you actually are (your interests, what you want) matter less. Luckily, with phone dating, you can truly get to know someone through conversation, imagination, and honesty. You can forget about materialistic notions and just be who you truly are and build genuine connections. You can also have fun and get filthy and sexual on the chat lines. There is a lot of room for phone play and exploration of one’s true desires.

The chat lines are open 24 hours a day, 7 days a week and there are always people to speak with. You can let your imagination run wild and truly speak up about your wildest fantasies without being judged. You can talk about things that you may be shy in-person but over the phone it’s sometimes easier to indulge, especially when the people in the phone dating community are encouraging it. There are hundreds of single people chatting away and you should be one of them. You may realize that you can build the kinds of relationships you want over the phone. So forget that often awkward blind date and instead have a real conversation about any topic you want. Use your active listening skills to find out more about your new phone friends. Learn to speak up about what you want and truly feel at home with a community of phone lovers and givers.