Let’s say that you’ve been hanging out for a while with local singles in your area on our phone chat dating line. You’ve already met an interesting potential partner or two, and you really like each other, but the relationship doesn’t seem to move forward.
Maybe the other person is seriously interested in meeting you in person and getting to know each other better, but you feel sort of scared. Have you ever been in such a situation?
Well, my dear, your issue may be your fear of commitment. Causes often include the emotional pain for a recent breakup or for an abusive relationship. In other words, if you felt unloved in the past, chances are that now you’re afraid of really getting yourself out there, because of the fear of being rejected again.
No matter who didn’t made you feel loved enough, the first step to overcome your fear of loving again is to acknowledge that it happened in the past.
Everyone deserves to be loved, cared for and cherished. If someone failed to give this to you, it’s their fault, not yours.
Things get worse in the situations where an abusive partner has been involved in the past. This kind of people often tricks you into thinking that you don’t deserve love or affection, and that you will not be able to get it from anyone else. Of course, it’s just a way to manipulate you, making you feel weak and unable to move on with your life.
The only way to overcome your fear of falling in love again is to start meeting new, interesting people, and to leave behind your past forever. We know that it’s easier said than done, but a local phone dating line can be very helpful, since it removes the pressure of having to meet the other person face-to-face until you have built enough intimacy to do so.
When dating over the phone, you always have the opportunity to hang up immediately if things don’t go your way. Then, you can feel free to move to the next guy or girl, hoping that it will be a better match for you. After all, there’s plenty of fish in the sea, true?
